Letter 12 - The Person That I Hate The Most

This letter stumped me, I do hate things, but I don't hate many people. For the most part I try to get over first impressions and look past mistakes. I forgive far too easy and let people in faster than I should. Some people call that a weakness, some people call it a curse. I think that if I didn't do it, I wouldn't have experienced half the things I have experienced. I guess, the people I hate the most, are haters. So this is for you haters.

Dear Haters,

I hate you. I despise that you hide behind anonymous posts and far spread rumors. I can't stand how you judge me, and make opinions about me before you give me the time of day. Sure, I'm an immature guy, I know that. You shouldn't jump to conclusions. So to each and everyone of you, the ones who called me gay, the ones that said I was a player, the one that pass me and laugh, I hate you.

I really can't pin point one of you that I hate the most, because you are all equally unimportant and pathetic in my book. To judge someone before you get to know them, its just wrong. I may not be the most attractive guy, or the most athletic, or the most creative, but I'm not the least either. I share a lot of love, with a lot of people, and frankly, your missing out. I feel sorry for you, I've gotten extremely close with some amazing people and they look past my faults, or confront my faults to me, to my face. Learn something from them.

I've said this before but I've put up a wall, a sort of cocoon that I hide behind. That wall is usually let down to the people who actually get to know me, so what right do you have to judge me, when you haven't gotten to know me, or even tried.

I went to college, I was a small fish in a big pond. I met new people, started a new life, become a new person. People still judge me, I guess you haters will always be around. I take it as a compliment, there must be a reason why you hate on me. Jealousy? I wouldn't understand why anyone would just purely hate me, I really don't cause many wrongs to people. If anything, I do my best to help my friends and acquaintances. Stop hating, put down your guard, get to know me. If you have something to say or critique then I'll listen, in a heartbeat, but don't waste your anonymous hate on ears that won't listen, because you don't deserve them to.

I ask you this haters, if you reading, confront me. Comment, send me a message on Facebook, don't hide behind anonymity, give me a name, and give me a reason why you hate me. I'd love to hear from you, and maybe answer why I act the certain ways I do. I bet none of you will, you are all fake and wrong. You make the world a worse place, with your misplaces rumors and incorrect judgements.

Not just on me, but on everyone else. Stop, love, don't hate.

I'll hate on the haters any day.

The guy you hate,
The guy who hates you,
Cam

But for tonight, goodnight.